LOVE!

Let’s talk about love!

Love, beyond self-love. Love, beyond the little butterflies in your stomach. Let’s talk about shared love. What better time to talk about this subject than Valentine’s Day season? Before I go any further, let me share a little secret with you. I don’t celebrate Valentine’s day. Yes, you read that right- I don’t. Never did and never will. I am a firm believer that love should be celebrated everyday. I will never persuade you to believe my truth. The simple reality is, I don’t know if I'm going to see the next four or five Valentine’s day. Therefore, I choose the present day to show love to the ones dear to me. I never understood the point of waiting an entire year to prove my love to someone who I admire. Whooh! Ok, now that I got this off my chest, let’s dive into this blog. Since we are going to talk about romantic love, which is a deep connection within an intimate relationship; I will kindly ask that you keep an open mind to the things I plan to share with you. No, this is not a how to manual. It is simply some pointers on how to spice things up a bit.

Single,  Dating, Complicated:

We all have a friend who falls into this category. Well, you might be the one in this category. Don’t panic! Think of it as a blessing. I advise you to take this time to do something great for yourself. This is the time to love the HELL out of yourself! I am talking about everything between arranging a spa day for yourself to visiting a country for the first time (alone). This valentine’s day is all about you. Send yourself some flowers, buy yourself a gift you’ve been wanting, have a photoshoot, invite another single friend over and have a nice dinner, the list goes on. On the other hand, if you are dating exclusively, you both have to decide if you want to celebrate Valentine’s Day or not. For those of you who decide to celebrate Valentine’s day, I encourage you to do something out of the ordinary. Forget about the restaurants, movies, or spa. Be creative! Candlelight bath, turn your house into a spa- hire a masseuse to your house for a couple’s massage, picnic on the beach, sexy game night, you can even try the museum of sex. Listen, whatever you decide to do, make sure you both enjoy it.

Engage, Married

OK ladies and Gentlemen, this is a different category. If you are in this category, consider EVERYTHING! The same rule applies here- no restaurants, movies or spa. Go the extra mile for your partner. Adding to the list above, some other things one may consider are: Breakfast in bed, a letter of appreciation with money enclosed, hire a chef to cook a special meal for the two of you, exchange gifts, take a trip somewhere you both never been, go skinny dipping,  spice things up in the bedroom: Wake him/her up with oral, try a new position, try blindfold oral, break out the handcuffs, use the toys, explore every part of the house- you’d be amazed at how flexible you can be at different areas of your house, go to bed naked, if the kids are not around, spend the day naked (indoors), use one little ice cube on him/her, whatever you do make sure you surprise one another. 

Note to the ladies: Initiate the sex. 

Cheers to love! Shared love.